Alexander rang up. He asked sensible questions about what I want to do next. I was allowing myself to sink into gloom because I am not as well or strong as I was a month ago and a return to Drummond Place (and my CATS) seemed increasingly remote. But that is not so, he points out, with live-in care. Alexander has a near neighbour on the shores of Loch Fyne who started out with live-in care when she was in roughly the state of decrepitude which I recently had, and who is now bed-ridden — with a demented husband, to boot. But still at home.
So I think we will approach the problem from that perspective. For the sake of the comfort and convenience of the live-in carer, I would like to solve the problem of the downstairs lavatory first. Although I am assured that that is not essential. And the problem of the hip operation remains to be solved on any hypothesis. Is the hip likely to collapse? How much mobility (if any) am I likely to be able to recover without surgery? How long will recovery take if all goes swimmingly? Have I got enough lifetime to spare?
I didn’t get much knitting done. Indeed, it has been a day of general inactivity. I must take things in hand tomorrow. I have done 12 scallops — one more than this time yesterday. And even so — even although it was only one — I found myself knitting the wrong row, my thots drifting. (There are 16 rows per scallop, each one different.)
Wordle: three was the general score today. Theo and I lagged behind the others with undistinguished fours.
If you could find someone like Wafa to live in that would be perfect! Wordle in 5 for.
ReplyDeleteMaybe try The Lady magazine to find someone, obviously checking scrupulously for refs and DBS. I found one of our private Carers through an Agency called CURAM CARE, very thorough vetting system. https://www.curamcare.com/
ReplyDeleteGoodness, I had no idea The Lady was still in existence , I think of it as a 30’s novel magazine! I am glad Alexander is helping you think through this. I do hope the hip operation is something you will be able to do. I got Wordle in two today! A nice showing considering I failed several times last week.
ReplyDeleteThe live-in carer may be able to help deal with the plumber. It should be done, since it is affecting the downstairs neighbor.
ReplyDelete16 rows! Wow, I had no idea the scallops were so complex!
I am in favor of going through with the surgery, but I am not on the scene.
I agree with everyone else. Glad Alexander called.
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