Thanks for al the comfort and advice.
Sunday is a good day for getting things
done – in fact, the only one. We have lunch at lunchtime, on Sunday, when we
get back from Mass, then an hour's nap which has become an essential
for both, then there are still a couple of hours of Doing Time before
Television-and-Knitting Time. Other days, my husband's getting-up, and breakfasting, and bathroom-time take all and rather more than all of the morning, and then we go for our little walk, and then have lunch in what is getting dangerously close to mid-afternoon.
Yesterday I spent those precious hours sorting piles of
paper and securing them with paper clips. I feel quite a lot better.
My account-keeping has gone to hell of latel, and papers keep piling up, and
some sort of order will be needed for the income tax in January. For
the moment, it actually seems do-able.
Income tax is where your several words of
comfort fail, I'm afraid. OK, if I don't write the Christmas cards or
think of presents for the Little Boys at Loch Fyne. Too bad, but life
will go on. But if I don't get the tax filed in January, they'll come
and get me. And it won't be me – it's my husband's tax I'm doing,
in fact. It'll be all right if I die, I suppose – Alexander will
just have to arrange a postponement. He'll have a lot to do, in that case, and I'd
rather spare him that one.
But things tend to seem better in
January, post-solstice. And the day one files the tax is
exhilarating, with a whole delicious year stretching ahead and more
light every day.
I haven't given up on the Apple Mac
idea, indeed am negotiating about one for Christmas. I wonder if this
would, after all, be the solution of my husband's wish for a simple
word-processing program – meaning, one with the features he needs
and nothing else? There are programs, I know (even dedicated
computers?), for Silly Old Fools who only need to send emails to
their grandchildren. But my husband also needs footnotes, and a
program which can move a footnoted paragraph from one place to
another and have everything smoothly re-numbered.
Why did I ever let him abandon his
DOS-based machine? Why didn't I make him face up to what was going on
– file structure, formatting – when he was young enough perhaps
to take it in?
Knitting
Don't miss the link in Jean
from Cornwall's comment yesterday. Here it is, to save you
turning back: Tjipeter
Mystery. Scroll down to fifth picture. I have forwarded it to K.D., just in case she missed it.
All went reasonably well with my own
knitting yesterday. There was a dropped stitch in the Unst Bridal
Shawl edging. It has been safely recovered, and I doubt if you could
find the place, but it's not up to Shetland Museum standard. Only
eight stitches remain between me and the third corner – I should
round it this evening. Each scallop eats up six stitches, but two
return rows will be unsecured, one on either side of the corner
stitch – that is, they will advance the scallop but won't consume a
border stitch. I can't remember what I did about that on the other
corners. Something similar.
The whole thing, as it increasingly
emerges from the confinement of the needles, looks awfully small and
mean, especially as compared to the Princess. Blocking will transform
it (and reveal all the disasters), but even blocking can't be
expected to double its size. Hellie must understand that she doesn't
have to wear it on September 19. I will see her at Loch Fyne at
Christmas and we can discuss this in depth. She could just keep it
for her babies.
And Archie's sweater is now 7 1/2”
(of 17) below the armpits. I'm relaxing about the yarn-quantity
question. Skeins four and five (of 12), currently employed in tandem,
will clearly last a long time.
Again this morning, Zite's knitting
section is full of thngs I've already seen. What's gone wrong?
Don't despair about the size of the shawl Jean. Cobweb yarn seems to double its size easily. Could you block it with a helper so that you can give it a good stretch? Maybe good to have someone else around too if you are worried about sections that might cause difficulty.
ReplyDeleteThinking about your tax deadline, would it be possible to impose a personal deadline in, say, June or July when you feel more up to it? By then you should have all the bits of paper required to do your 2014/15 return and think of the relief that it won't be hanging over you at the end of the year.
Oh dear! I can't even spell my name correctly.
DeleteRe: the corner.
ReplyDeleteI seem to remember when going around the corners on Euny's Print o' the Wave, I was instructed to go into each of a certain number of corner stitches twice so joining two passes of the border to each one.
However, if leaving a gap works, good. Best to keep to the same way at this late stage.
What a fun story and photos of Rams ans Ewes. I have bits of gotta perch in mumouth, as they used to use it for root canals. I second the professional blocking idea if you are in doubt.
ReplyDeleteI should mention that the Tokyo shawl comes with instructions in English (and Danish) if ordered as a kit from Sommerfuglen.dk
ReplyDeleteInge
I agree about the tax , I do ours by September at the latest, all the receipts seem to be in by mid summer and it is so much easier doing it when you have plenty of time to spare and light evenings to feel you have more time by. January always seems to be like dicing with chance and worrying about a penalty payment. I also thought that if you file early they take money, if you owe, from next years income on a pro rata basis rather than demand an instant payment?
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry to hear that once again you are feeling anxious. However, if that is your regular day it is not surprising that you feel under stress, particularly when it gets dark so early. Now might be a good time to activate your plan to get help with personal care for your husband. It could free you up to keep on top of your other essential tasks.
ReplyDeleteHmm it is hard to search for a Marina of Out Skerries - I am led to links about boats! I hope she reveals her Ravelry name so we can go read about what may be her projects. I am very fond of the Marius pattern on her sweater.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the link about the Tjipetir blocks. I had heard the story on the BBC news but somehow they omitted the knitting info ... wonder why!
I can hardly wait to see the photos of the shawl. It is going to be stellar.
LisaRR