Jenni and
Theo’s son was born on Wednesday, in the 23rd week of her pregnancy.
He lived only a few hours.
Here we
still are.
My husband
woke up that morning feeling “off” – not like him – and spent most of the day
in bed. My sister phoned, very early CT time, to say that Jenni was in labour.
I felt disinclined for adventure, and anxious to be near a telephone. Even when
my husband is in what passes for the pink of condition these days, I worry
about being in the country with him, far from help.
He was much
better yesterday. We’ll probably attempt Strathardle tomorrow. The weather has
been most peculiar – really very nice in Edinburgh
and (clearly) London
yesterday, apocalyptic between and above. The radio said this morning that some
– how much? – of Tayside is without electricity. That’s us.
I’ll print
the pattern for the Joseph’s Coat cardigan and take it to the K*rkmichael
knitters with the yarn, hoping that it will wind up on the back of a precious
Perthshire baby this winter. For Jenni and Theo’s next child, I’ll start again
with something else.
In the
course of all this, I’m nearly around the heel of Alexander’s second sock.
Toe-up heels seem to involve much more knitting than top-down ones – I have
decided that that’s because, in the normal way of things, one feels that the
heel is done as soon as it has been turned and the stitches picked up for the
gusset. The gusset decreases themselves slide down painlessly into the foot.
And, apart
from the weather, wasn’t yesterday’s news extraordinary? BBC radio this morning
seems curiously uninterested in the Supreme Court decision on Obamacare. I’ll
go across the square in a moment and get the papers. And Nadal is out of Wimbledon ! As far as I can understand the draw, Federer
and Djokivic will deal will each other and Murray , if he gets that far, will meet one or
the other in the final. He had a tough match yesterday (which I got to watch),
but not as tough as Nadal’s.
Let’s end
on a cheerful domestic note. I give all my children New Yorker subscriptions every
year, which I think they all enjoy. I know that Thomas-the-Elder reads his
mother Rachel’s subscription on his iPad, while she has the paper copy. The
Greek subscription comes here, and I send them on in batches when the spirit
moves me.
Greek Helen
sent this picture recently, with the message, “The New Yorkers have arrived”. We spoke
on the phone on Wednesday, and I thanked her for it – she said
the boys dive for them. That’s Archie in the foreground, Mungo (presumably) behind.
We have recently figured out that I can share my father's New Yorker subscription in the same way--he gets paper and I get the iPad.
ReplyDeleteSo now I have a year or more of New Yorkers to read during dull moments.
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ReplyDeleteI am sorry to hear about Theo & Jenni's loss. My best wishes to them.
My father and I have recently come to the same New Yorker sharing arrangement; now I have more than a year of them to catch up on!
It must be a very distressing time for Theo and Jenni and upsetting for the rest of you too. Thinking of you.
ReplyDeleteOh so sorry. Sad news indeed.
ReplyDeleteI miss my New Yorker subscription - maybe I should treat myself!
Stay out of the weather!
So sorry to hear the news. Something similar happened to a friend and it is absolutely heart-breaking. I hope their story gets happier as hers did.
ReplyDeleteDeep sympathies for Jenni and Theo and you. May you all be comforted.
ReplyDeleteMy condolences, jean, such sad news. I share my New Yorkers after reading with a friend who then shares with a friend. That way, if I don't get to an issue in depth, I don't feel guilty.
ReplyDeleteI usually lurk but this time I really wanted to say sorry to read about the little lad, hugs to you all at this sad time x
ReplyDeleteMy condolences to Jenni and Theo and all feeling the loss. What a difficult situation.
ReplyDeleteWhat dreadful news. I'm so very, very sorry.
ReplyDeleteWhat a sad loss, Jean, not only for the baby's parents, but for the whole family. I can understand why you're giving the yarn and pattern away. It would always be a reminder of this loss.
ReplyDeleteOn a lighter note, that is a wonderful photo of the grandsons devouring the New Yorkers. It made me chuckle, and I'll bet the boys were engrossed for hours.
Mary G. in Texas
What a sad thing to happen! I do hope that they were able to name him, as he will always be a member of your family.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear the news. My condolances to Jenni, Theo, and the whole family.
ReplyDeleteWonderful photo of the boys with their New Yorkers.
I am so sorry Jean. What awful news. I hope that in the not too distant future there is a baby sweater that gets knit for Theo and Jenni.
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts are with your family. Such anticipation of joy salted by such a devastating loss.
ReplyDeleteJudith in Ottawa
I am so sorry for your family for your loss. Hugs to you, Jenni, and Theo.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry, Jean.
ReplyDeleteso sorry to hear that sad story, there is nothing so distressing as losing a child.
ReplyDeletethinking of all of you
Sophie
So sorry to hear the sad news.
ReplyDeleteas with all above, sending good thoughts and hugs to Theo and Jenni
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So sorry. Thinking of them.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear about the loss of that precious boy. My sympathies to you, your sister, and of course Jenni and Theo.
ReplyDeleteYou are so generous to allow another knitter/baby to enjoy the sweater intended for the baby.
Beverly in NJ
A belated but no less sincere sorry...
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