We got through yesterday, but it cost
us both.
Your kind comments came too late – I
took the edging along. It was a mistake – but no harm was done. I
was too trembly to knit with pleasure, and my husband's name kept
being called causing us to spring up in mid-row to gather up all our bags and
coats. He saw four separate nurses before we got to the actual doctor
– the weigh-in, bloods, a lung-function test, and finally a nice
talk about Life.
That final nurse thought we would
qualify for Disability Living Allowance, and once we had that we
could easily get a Disabled badge for the car which is what we really
want. I don't want to take money from the state which we don't need
(and complicate the income tax still further) but I'll look it up.
The badge for the car would be very useful – you can park on yellow
lines.
When we finally saw the dr, he agreed
that the whole exercise was pointless. There is nothing they can do
for my husband except to provide him with oxygen, and we don't think
things are quite that bad yet.
The one thing to be said for having
taken the edging along, was that it was a great conversation-starter
amongst elderly respiratory patients. One particularly nice woman
told me that she had had to give up knitting because of arthritis.
That would be terrible. I wondered afterwards whether mastery of the
Shetland technique with a knitting-belt would extend one's knitting
years at all, since so much less movement of the hand is required.
And I mustn't forget that mastering the
belt remains high on my to-do list.
In the midst of the morning
preparations, the yarn from Jamieson & Smith arrived – and it
bears the same lot number as the four balls I bought in Lerwick over
the counter in September. Meadow Yarn says that my needles have been
dispatched – no worry there, they'll go through the letter box. So
we're all set. All that has to happen is for Hellie to get engaged.
I'll look pretty silly if she's left on the shelf.
It is a general rule of life that
worrying about something more-serious forces lesser worries to
resolve themselves. I think there is an Old Chinese Proverb about the
cure for toothache being to shoot off your big toe.
I've now knit 21 scallops of the 50 on
the final side of the Unst Bridal Shawl edging – nearly half-way.
One at the hospital, the rest peacefully, with steady hands, at home.
Thinking ahead a bit, and presuming my percentages to be
not-too-far-off, if I can do a fifth of this thing in a little over a
month (I started on December 26), I ought to be able to finish it
comfortably this year, with a bit of extra knitting on the side.
My sister phoned last night for an
eve-of-battle chat in preparation for Wednesday. She and her
husband will set off for NYC this afternoon.
Try this site https://www.gov.uk/financial-help-disabled, I'm not sure what the situation is for people over 64 and what benefits you can claim to 'passport' you into things like a blue badge, I could do more research for you later but I'm at work at teh moment. - Rachel
ReplyDelete"To be left on the shelf" is a nice expression, we don´t have a similar one in German, but nowadays it sounds quite a bit sexistic, doesn´t it?
ReplyDeleteRe: Blue Badge. May i suggest you phone your local council, say you need to apply for a BB and get the direct line to the appropriate department. When you speak to them, tell them your husband has respiratory conditions, frequent hospital appointments and can only walk a short distance. There is the inevitable form and they want a photo. Please do apply, I think you need one.
ReplyDeleteHelen
For over 65s it is called Attendance Allowance, the lowest rate really is quite low, but is almost always needed these days for the blue badge as far as I know. They've got quite stingy about giving them out. From what you've said I think he'd qualify. If you need help filling out the forms I've done the incapacity/ESA forms. Age UK would also be able to help I think. The main thing is not to underestimate your husband's condition, none of us like to think about these things so tend to play it down in everyday life (or at least I do), but the thing with these forms is not to, they can be depressing, but worth it in the end.
ReplyDeleteBut do follow up the previous commenter's suggestion first to see if he could get a blue badge without, always worth a try.
Sympathy xxx
I think the combination of things would make having a badge very nice to have: your husband's health and his need to leave at the very last moment. It would ensure a chance of better parking.
ReplyDeletedying to know about WEDNESDAY!
ReplyDeleteHi Jean,
ReplyDeleteHope you and your hubby are having a better day.
Since you've posted about taking Craftsy classes, I thought you might enjoy this Forbes article about the Craftsy business:
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