Wednesday, May 03, 2023

 

Sorry about yesterday. Helen, who is nothing if not energetic, rang my doctor up and told him my hip was deteriorating. He ordered a same-day x-ray and in the afternoon we went to a near-by hospital and I had that. (Now what, you well may ask?)  But that meant nap-less-ness and by the time we got back from the hospital I was capable of no more than sipping some soup and heading for a very early bed. The doctor will have the results early next week, I was told.

 

Helen had a long session with the neighbours in Kirkmichael on Monday and doesn’t seem to be getting much of anywhere. Here is a picture of our driveway.



 The strip of land to the left, along which the figure in the red jacket is proceeding, is the one in question, which we have offered to buy. It’s useless to man or beast. The ditch is invisible beyond it, further to the left. The neighbours’ house – which is rarely occupied, it might be noted, and only roughly furnished, Helen says – is out of sight and above, further to the left. On the right is the sheep field, which belongs to a family trust, not to our neighbour himself.

 

All Helen and David are asking for is the right to clear the ditch when necessary. The neighbour’s demands are, I think, outrageous: David and Helen to supply, plant and maintain twenty Douglas firs along a new fence in the sheep field; the neighbour to have a right of first refusal if we ever sell our house. I think Helen and David will soon consult a lawyer.  A good country lawyer will try to avoid actual legal action between neighbours, but I think we’ve gone far enough along the path of accommodation and it is time (as several of you suggest) to see if the threat, at least, of action could achieve results.

 

Meanwhile the knitting progresses. I am now picking up stitches for the borders around the centre of the shawl. It’s a bitch of a job, and I am struggling.

 

It is a comfort in all this to have Wordle to turn to. I thought today’s word was rather difficult. I got it in three – my starters did most of the work. For several happy hours I thought I might be the only three. Thomas needed four. Five for Ketki, Rachel, Mark and Roger. Six for Theo. But Alexander, blast him, posted a matching three when the afternoon was well advanced.

 

 

7 comments:

  1. Hmm seeing that photo is worth everything. one thing occurs maybe he is too old to deal with clearing the ditch himself and doesnt want to pay because as you know have found out no one lives there. at this point get the lawyer involved. your lawyer and his lawyer can work something out. he knows he has it over yall and he is not going to budge.

    again the fact that he is not clearing the ditch and it is so obvious creating a hazard for your access (which you said you paid for years before) ... that is the only obvious legal thing you can go after ... but it may be enough.

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    1. also the land belonging to a family trust .. his family? if so then perhaps there are more reasonable members who could convince him

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  2. Anonymous7:00 PM

    Sorry to hear your hip is giving you ‘ gip ‘ as my mother would have said . Re the ground issues a good lawyer will deal with it and make them an offer they can’t refuse.

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  3. =Tamar12:44 AM

    Sorry to hear that your hip is worse but at least your doctor is taking you seriously.

    The neighbor doesn't even live there, but he doesn't want to let work be done at your cost, that would benefit him as well? That and the demand for first refusal sounds like he is hoping to frustrate you into giving up and letting him buy the land to enlarge his. Southern Gal has a point: the hazard created to your access - essentially denying you the access you have paid for - may be the needed lever.

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  4. Anonymous2:17 AM

    That is your driveway??? Well sure there’s a car in the distance and the water isn’t all that deep (the dog doesn’t have to swim!) but that’s completely absurd. It looks like a pond. I’d be afraid to drive through the water since the driveway is not paved and how could you tell how deep it is? Also it would be all too easy to get stuck in the mud. Could you pave the drive and put in lights and maybe sump pumps to transfer the water downhill, to the sheep field? I’d be tempted to offer him an alternative along those lines….

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  5. Anonymous11:07 AM

    This looks like a plot out of Hollywood. But it’s real! So sorry you have to resort to lawyers but it does look like the only recourse. (I am sitting on my hands to avoid suggesting - in jest, of course - a swift Hollywood solution.) Just hope that it is not a long, drawn out affair. I am sure that Helen will get a good one! Jean, I admire your stamina for getting through all that picking up. Maybe you can divide the job into 4 or 5 separate operations (for lack of a better word) and give yourself a reward after each one. Even though it might take 4 or 5 days. Knitting is supposed to be fun, right? So glad your hip is being looked after. Strong Best Wishes on all fronts (including Wordle!). Chloe

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  6. Mary Lou4:27 PM

    That photo does put things in perspective! And the fact that the house is rarely occupied is especially irritating. Country lawyer sounds like it might be the way to go.

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